Friday 2 August 2013

Chhathi Ceremony


This ceremony is performed when the baby is six days old. This ceremony is primarily for women and is timed to take place late at night, say between ten o'clock and midnight. 

According to folklore, there was a belief that on the 6th day after the birth of the child,  Vidhaata (Goddess of destiny) would quietly enter the house around midnight to pen the destiny of the newborn. Traditionally the mother of the newborn lights a lamp (diya). This lamp along with a red pen and paper are placed on a wooden plank for Vidhaata to write the future of the newborn.

The mother, while holding the newborn in her arms, kneels before the lamp, which is supposed to symbolize Vidhaata.

Friday 19 July 2013

Why do Hindus worship the cow?


We really don't pray to cows.  We respect, and when we greatly respect out of love, we call it worship. Worshiping means paying particular attention, care and concern.

We worship cows, we worship people, we worship our mother because we simply respect  them all. We sincerely love them. We don't want to hurt them.

India, being an agriculture society in its early days, found the cow useful not only for milk but also for plowing the land and for transportation. The cow was very important to the Aryans, so they gave more importance to cows than the other creatures.  Like you are more important to your parents than other people so they serve you more. So to respect cow is just like we respect automobile today. We care for the cars because it is a necessity. So instead of 
word "care", we might use the word "prayer" or "worship." 

Hence the cow is considered a manifestation of God. It represents all the helpless animals that cannot talk. By respecting them it means we should not take advantage or harm them, but be lovable to all creatures.

Worshiping does not mean that they have become God, but that God has manifested in them. To worship a cow means to worship all the helpless ones including the sick, poor, and old. The life of a worldly person will show that he is always worshiping where he finds himself as a benefactor; it is a selfish attitude. He will worship all that he has -- 
 a house, a car, or money. To make more money some will want to study more; they will become doctors to make more money rather than to serve mankind.

There is nothing wrong in respecting or worshiping all creatures, including cows. We should really be worshiping the entire universe as the Gita teaches us. To worship means  to respect, to love, and to dignify everything --  including ourselves.

-- Swami Radhanandaji